Or as I like to say as Outreach Director of Suncoast Community Church, “Help me help you.”  At Suncoast, we believe in helping organizations in the community better serve their clients…we call these “Suncoast Partners.”  This book was an eye opener on how we often enable people and help them to develop a dependence rather than actually meet them at their need.  This is an excellent read for anyone who is interested in giving a hand up instead of a hand out.